Notes from Families in response to the shooting at Inland Regional Center
Thank you all for your kind words of condolence to the staff of Harbor and Inland Regional Center. Your touching words make a difficult time easier to bear.
The Shooting at Inland Regional Center: A Parent’s Thoughts
I am a parent of a child with autism. Ten years ago, before I
knew she was on the spectrum, she received early intervention
services. Services that were crucial to her development, to her
ability to learn how to walk, to learn fine motor skills, gross
motor skills, to speak. Her very future relied on these services
— not from a doctor’s office, a neurologist or any other
specialist. No, a child can only get services like these from a
regional center, and today, Inland Regional Center in San
Bernardino, California, where she has been receiving services
ever since, was reportedly under attack by three shooters. And
people were killed. And my heart sank.
I thought of the many case workers over the years who have spent
countless hours advocating for my daughter who were placed in
danger. One in particular will always be close to my heart.
Though the school district diagnosed my daughter with autism, the
Inland Regional Center did not, and this would have prevented her
from receiving autism services I knew she needed. Her case worker
fought to get those services anyway, and she won. She cared
enough to do this for my child because she cared about my child’s
future just as much as I do. And my child is thriving now, making
gains, doing things I never imagined, all because of the services
from the Inland Regional Center, because her case worker was on
my side.
I thought of the respite care I’ve received through the regional
center funding, and what blessings these respite workers have
been to have in my home. Without them, I would be hanging by a
thread. Their help has been invaluable in giving me peace and
support while raising my special children.
Just six weeks ago, I came full circle as I brought my 2-year-old
son to the Inland Regional Center for evaluation to determine if
he was on the autism spectrum. He had already been enrolled in
the best 39-hour-a-month early intervention program for the last
18 months, fully funded by the center. A kind, welcoming
psychologist assessed him. She played with him, she laughed with
him, she spent two hours with him and she listened to my story
and my appreciation for the many services I’ve received from
their center. I recently got a certified letter from Inland
Regional Center, saying he was discharged because he had no
qualifying diagnosis. He will no longer receive services from
this center, but I will forever be grateful for their generosity,
and to his case worker, who I pray was not harmed today.
The Inland Regional Center, and all regional centers, are the
vital link in the chain of children with disabilities. They
provide services that no school district or medical professional
provides: they come to your homes. They sit down and listen to
you. They fight for your children. They are your advocates when
you are too tired to be one. They give services to your children
when they become adults. They are right there with you, helping
you to understand, to support and to raise your children.
To all the countless therapists and providers who have come to my
home as a result of the Inland Regional Center, I say, thank you.
You have made my job as a parent to children with special needs
more manageable, and more hopeful.
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My grandson, Daryl, has the bravest parents and they are helped
at Harbor Regional. Our appreciation is immeasurable. Knowing
what Harbor and Inland Centers do to help our children is nothing
short of a miracle. Our hearts are broken for your fellow
regional center and we extended our love and prayers to you
all.
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I have been heartbroken since I heard about the shooting on
Wednesday. As a mother of 3 year old with Down Syndrome who has
received support from the Harbor Regional Center since his birth
I am extremely grateful for all the support that you have
provided my family. I consider the Regional Center part of my
family….therefore my family was hurt during these unexplained
shootings. My prayers go out to your staff and the staff of the
Inland Regional Center as we look for answers and start the
healing process.
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Hello to all of you:
We wanted to offer our condolences to you and anyone else at HRC
who has been affected by yesterday’s senseless tragedy.We are
just one of your families whose child has been supported, since
he was a baby, by your organization.Our hearts are saddened by
any loss. But when it might involve those who benefit the world
of Special Needs, the circumstances are beyond our comprehension
or acceptance. Our family wishes you peace of mind and good
health.——————————————————————————————————————————————-